If I’ve learned anything over the years that I’ve been dating, it’s that it is much more preferable to have her chasing after you, instead of the other way around. This is contrary to how it is normally. These days, women are inundated with messages by men on dating sites, they have their pick of the litter and can be selective with who they want to give their time to. But that doesn’t mean that you have to chase after her. Here are a few ways to turn that upside down and be pursued by her.
Make Her Want You!
The most important tip that I can give is to give her less of your time, or at least make it seem like your time is sparse and valuable. You can’t always be free every night at the drop of a hat. Make it seem like you have a full schedule, whether that is true or not. If you are always free any night, she’ll think you must be a loser and have no friends or no other interests. Fill your schedule with other dates, outings with friends and other activities and make her way work her way into your schedule. She’ll see that your time is valuable, maybe think that there are other women trying for your heart, and it will turn on her competitive side and want to get more of your time.
Another way to get her to desire you more and want more of your time is to be more confident when you are around her. Women are attracted to confidence, so don’t be a wuss. Keep an eye on your body language and the way you compose yourself. Don’t be nervous and fidget in your chair, instead sit straight up with good posture. Keep your head held high when walking and be respectful with how you treat others in her presence. She’ll see that you’re a confident man and be more attracted to you and want to spend more time with you.
The last way to make her want you more and start to chase after you is to have fun with her. Joke around and be a little flirtatious. If you can make her laugh and smile, she’ll have good feelings about the times she’s had with you and want to experience that again and again. If you can keep her smiling, she’ll want to be around you more.
Follow these simple tips and she’ll be going after you for more time together, instead of the other way around. Let us know how it works for you!